When a butterfly get its wings

"Everyone is a butterfly, they start our ugly and awkward and then morph into beautiful graceful butterflies that everyone loves." Drew Barrymore


The glow up is real. Im just 1 day away from the big three oh.

Im excited and nervous for what this era will hold for me. My journey thus far has taken me through both high and lows times. Im often asked how i make it... well i leave you all today with a few steps i use to living your best life:

1. Take care of your health ( mind body and soul)
1a. mental health, work out and get you a strong village
2.Live in the moment. Instead of focusing on the things beyond your control focus on the present.
3. Ask for help.
4. Smile
5. Say & Think kind things- your self is listening
6. Keep red lipstick on deck
7. Have private parties...often. enjoy your own company.
8. Build a solid village that loves on you AND holds you accountable.
9. Say NO.
10. never second guess your intuition and hold true to your standards.

**bonus- READ and reflect as much as possible****

"When she transformed into a butterfly, the catepillars spoke not of her beauty but of her wierdness. They wanted her to change back into what she had always been. But she had wings" - Dean Jackson

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